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Thursday, December 30, 2010

Checklist

I realize I still have a good chunk of my pregnancy left, but I have been stressed out with all of the usual "to-dos" that come with having a baby.


I am happy to announce that we finally have a pediatrician - Dr. Kreh - with Pediatric Associates of Savannah. I had been worrying about that, even though many of my coworkers said they didn't stress about that until well into their seventh and eighth months. 


When you think about it, we don't have THAT much time left. Honestly. Derek and I have about 100 days left to prepare for our baby, nearly in double digits! 


On Tuesday, we start our first of three separate baby-related classes with Memorial Hospital in Savannah, where I'll deliver. The first "series" is the Baby Basics class. We'll go three times in the month of January, and I'm guessing this will just help us make sure we either don't screw up or at least realize when we've screwed up. After this one, we'll have a class on "Prepared Childbirth" on February 5. It's an 8 hour class, so I'm sure it will be interesting. Then, we have a Breastfeeding class on February 22. I figure that we need all the help we can get, so I'm taking it while I can get it. 


I've already ordered some cloth diapers, but we'll need many more. I'm expecting a shipment of three more to come in sometime soon. I try to get them when there's a special deal on them, and I recently found some by GroVia which have biodegradable inserts that we can flush. I plan to order some of those very soon. 


I just ordered our pack and play:


I loved how this one has pink flowers on it. I wanted to be sure there would be a changer with it, too. We ordered it from Target, and we used an awesome gift card from our neighbors, Megan and Justin (thanks, guys!!) so it wasn't super expensive or anything. 

So onto my checklist:

1) order more cloth diapers
2) buy a glider
3) buy a floor lamp for the nursery
4) get more nursery decor
5) buy a breastpump
6) set up the monitor in the nursery
7) buy baby toiletries 
8) get a doggie gate to help control the pups
9) get more baby gear such as a bouncy chair and swing
10) buy a jogger

Weew... I don't think that's all of it. We also need to choose our Godparents for when she's born and buy her baptism gown and get those classes started, possibly in March-ish. We'd like to take care of that pretty quickly since it's so important to both of us. I also need to "formally" notify HR about my maternity leave so I can get set up for short-term disability.

Notice the word "buy" makes a huge appearance in our checklist. We're also trying to save some more money before miss Stella arrives, so that makes the "buy" aspect even more complicated. You could also add to that list "take a nice trip" but I doubt either of us will have time!

We do plan to go to Atlanta soon for another Ikea and Whole Foods pilgrimage, and I think we're planning to do that on MLK weekend since we're driving into Statesboro that Saturday for Derek's grad program. We'd like to pick up the decor and possibly a rocker/glider there so we can get them on the cheap! 

I know everyone says that you're supposed to wait until you've had showers to buy things, but since we're so far from family and old friends, it makes us both very nervous. Let's be honest, you can't count on others for everything, either. My mom and mother-in-law are currently planning a shower for me in Portsmouth, but I can't be there because of work. I can't fly either because I'll be too far along (remember that scene from Away We Go where the airline turns them away and they end up on a train?). 

Phew! Babies are so much work! 

It'll be worth it, though. Just like all of these sinus problems and back pain and swollen feet (latest awful symptom) will be. Today, I had my feet propped at my desk with my shoes off - very professional, right? :( I had no choice! My shoes were literally cutting into the sides of my feet. 

Speaking of swollen feet, I'm going to get off this computer and go lay down and prop my feet! :) I hope everyone has a wonderful New Year! It's going to be a great New Year's Eve for us - our awesome friends Emily and Marcus are visiting! We're so excited to see them again! :) 



3 comments:

  1. Cute pack n play! We got a similar one, but I couldn't get Neil to go for pink. Ours is green and orange-ish. As far as baby stuff draining all your cash - I would definitely recommend yard sales (in nice neighborhoods), and craigslist! We've saved hundreds by buying secondhand - and baby stuff is used for such a short time, it is basically brand new.

    I'm with you, I wanted to buy the big stuff ourselves so we didn't have to rely on our shower guests to buy all our stuff. I mean, we made this baby so we can't expect other people to buy everything. Our parents have helped a lot though.

    Good for you on the classes! We just took the childbirth ones, but probably should've done more. I am just hoping the nurses at the hospital can teach me basic baby care and help with breastfeeding! Let me know if you get any good tips!

    Happy new near!!!

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  2. I think it's AWESOME that you're going with cloth diapers! :) My mom used cloth diapers with me but not her other three. Lots of work, yes, but well worth it! Stick with it! :) About family not being close, this can be a "positive" thing when it comes to cloth diapers, believe it or not. When I told my husband and his family that I wanted to try cloth diapers with our twins, they pretty much told me I'd be the only one doing it (they broke the news to me in a nice way, of course). I may sneak a few anyhow. ;) Stay with it! You can do it!

    Oh, and I love her pack and play! Too cute!

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  3. I think Feeding Baby Green by Dr. Alan Greene would be good, my psychology professor made a lot of important references to it throughout last semester.

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